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Reflections on Loss

March 13, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Forever Changed

Three years ago today we lost Kayln. You would think that after three years I would be used to the fact that she is gone, but I am not. I don’t know that I ever will be, completely. How do … Continue reading →

February 26, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Finding Simplicity

Lately I have been working towards simplifying my life by getting rid of unnecessary things. Now it is just the two of us left in this house and we find ourselves a bit overwhelmed by all of the stuff we … Continue reading →

December 30, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Let Peace In

This holiday season, I found myself searching for peace, wondering if it was obtainable for me. While my personal challenge is the loss of my daughter, others may be struggling with hectic schedules, tight budgets, family problems, and health issues. … Continue reading →

November 28, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Changed By Loss

The pain of losing a loved one can often be intensified by the unexpected consequences of grief, such as an inability to focus, lack of motivation, and lost sense of purpose. These characteristics of grief often make life difficult in … Continue reading →

October 16, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Our Source of Comfort

In times of turmoil, we long to be comforted yet often feel alone in our struggle. There is only one who can truly comfort us, the God who knows us better than we know ourselves. He provides refuge to our … Continue reading →

October 2, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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October is AVM Awareness Month

The first time I ever heard of an AVM was the day our daughter, Kayln, ended up in the ICU. The neurologist explained that an arteriovenous malformation (AVM) is a complex tangle of abnormal arteries and veins, and that the … Continue reading →

September 23, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Getting My Heart and Mind in Tune with God

This is the most persuasive argument I have come across for starting the day with bible study and prayer. Oftentimes a challenge of grief is a lack of motivation or feeling unable to face the day at all. But if … Continue reading →

September 18, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Help in Time of Need

So many people around us are hurting, quietly trying to cope with their struggles on their own. Most of us are well-practiced at covering up our feelings, and are uncomfortable sharing our difficulties with others. Whatever trials we are experiencing, … Continue reading →

September 9, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Answers I Can Rely On

I have wrestled with many unanswered questions during this trial of loss. I could easily become consumed by my search for answers, but I am discovering that peace comes when I let go of those questions and instead focus on … Continue reading →