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Reflections on Loss

March 13, 2019
by Tricia Osterholm
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Another Year Gone By

Today I am feeling the loss more deeply. It’s hard to face the reality that another year has gone by without my daughter. The anniversary date stirs up the painful memories of the day we lost Kayln, and it comes … Continue reading →

January 30, 2019
by Tricia Osterholm
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Deep Waters

When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2 You may find yourself feeling very alone as you try to cope with a loss. The pain can be overwhelming, and it’s hard to imagine that anyone … Continue reading →

November 29, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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A Final Tribute

Yesterday my father-in-law passed away. He was a U.S. Navy Korean War veteran. Though he rarely talked about his military service, he was critically injured and lost vision and hearing for a few days when his ship was fired upon. … Continue reading →

October 28, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Memories Matter

What to do with a loved one’s belongings after they have died is a dilemma, and there is no one size fits all solution. It is a very personal process and other people may not understand why it is so … Continue reading →

September 3, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Hold Tight to the Memories

Today Kayln would be 24. Looking at her photos makes me feel a little closer to her, but also brings the familiar ache of longing to see her again. How wonderful it would be to hear her laugh, to see … Continue reading →

September 1, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Peace of Mind & Heart

Jesus promises us peace. But our faith can be shaken when we are faced with devastating news, and peace suddenly seems unattainable. After the loss of a loved one, we can experience profound emptiness and loneliness that can be overwhelming. … Continue reading →

April 29, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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The Promise of Heaven

I am reflecting on the promise of heaven more than ever before. In this life, we all experience heartache, and while we are on this earth we must live with painful memories. But once we cross over to heaven, we … Continue reading →

March 13, 2018
by Tricia Osterholm
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Forever Changed

Three years ago today we lost Kayln. You would think that after three years I would be used to the fact that she is gone, but I am not. I don’t know that I ever will be, completely. How do … Continue reading →

December 30, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Let Peace In

This holiday season, I found myself searching for peace, wondering if it was obtainable for me. While my personal challenge is the loss of my daughter, others may be struggling with hectic schedules, tight budgets, family problems, and health issues. … Continue reading →

November 28, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Changed By Loss

The pain of losing a loved one can often be intensified by the unexpected consequences of grief, such as an inability to focus, lack of motivation, and lost sense of purpose. These characteristics of grief often make life difficult in … Continue reading →