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Reflections on Loss

August 8, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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The Overwhelming Nature of Loss

Loss creates a whirlwind of activity at a time when you want the world to stand still.  You are forced to make significant decisions when you are still in a state of shock and disbelief. I remember how difficult it … Continue reading →

August 1, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Finding the Positive

Some people are naturally optimistic, while others have to work a little harder to stay positive. When you suddenly find yourself in a season of grief, however, even the most upbeat person can struggle to find anything positive at all. … Continue reading →

July 25, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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We all make plans for our future, and hope that our plans come to fruition. While there is nothing wrong with planning, we cannot control every aspect of our future. Sometimes we are blindsided by a loss that seems to … Continue reading →

July 17, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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Triggers of Grief

Many people who have lost a loved one discover that anniversaries, birthdays and holidays can be triggers for grief. I have found this to be very true as we have tried to navigate through life without our daughter. Special dates … Continue reading →

July 10, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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The Beauty of Her Soul

The beauty of her soul Captured in this one moment A self-portrait of the modern kind Her mood that day Shines through her smile I long to see her happy again She left behind These priceless snapshots How I yearn … Continue reading →

July 3, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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The Passage of Time

Time is often given credit as a healer, but in fact time is a neutral party. Time alone cannot heal a deep wound; treatment is required for healing to take place. A significant loss causes a wound to the soul, … Continue reading →

June 26, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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In Conflict

Most days, I am in conflict. I wish my daughter was still here, but I would never want her to continue to suffer like she did. Reminders of Kayln are often too painful to bear, yet I desperately need to … Continue reading →

June 26, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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“And we wept that one so lovely should have a life so brief.” From the poem “The Death of the Flowers” by William Cullen Bryant, American poet and journalist.

June 19, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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The Path to Healing

As I have walked through the grief process, my expectations for healing and recovery have changed over time. In the beginning I imagined that being healed from grief meant I would one day be free from the pain. After all, … Continue reading →

June 19, 2017
by Tricia Osterholm
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  “You have seen me tossing and turning through the night. You have collected all my tears and preserved them in your bottle! You have recorded every one in your book.” ~Psalm 56:8 (TLB)